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Card Payment – The Cheaper, Easier Way To Chat

Our new online payment system is the cheapest way to chat on GayAdultChat.

Up until now, card payments could only be made over the phone. However, our new online system means you can log in and top up to add minutes to your account, from anywhere!

Click here to create your account now.

It’s quick and easy to create an account by following the link above. You can do this on any device, including mobiles, tablets, laptops and home computers.

The benefits of having a card account include:

  • Fast and secure payment with Visa, Mastercard, PayPal, Google and Apple Pay.
  • Know exactly how much you’re topping up and paying
  • No premium rate numbers on your phone bill
  • Introductory offer – for £10 get 133 mins – that’s 8p/min!

You can also chat with people on our chat lines by calling 0871 550 8008 from your landline or 83344 from your mobile.

Why not try our mobile dating service for fun dating and hook-ups. Click here to join for free.

Stay connected on GayAdultChat – The UK’s #1 gay chat line.

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We’re changing our Gay Adult Chat number you call from mobiles from 84422 to 83344!

Our gay adult chat line number is changing on 1st May 2023 from 84422 to 83344. It is the same great gay chat service that you are used to and it is changing because we are just putting all our chat services under one easy to use mobile access number – 83344.

If you call from a mobile then always use our cheaper voice short code 83344. Just dial 83344 from your mobile and press 2 for gay chat. All our users will be able to enjoy the UK’s favourite chat lines all under the one number so it doesn’t matter if you’re gay or straight.


5 reasons why Gay Adult Chat is the best UK chat line

  1. Hot live 121 chat 24/7 with UK guys
  2. Option to set up a personal voicemail box
  3. All callers are genuine users – no operators used here
  4. Secure and anonymous service with UK customer service
  5. Use our service a lot then set up a cheaper prepaid card account now


How to call us

  • Calling from a UK landline – dial 0871 550 8008
  • Calling from a UK mobile – dial 83344 and press 2 for gay chat. It’s the same great service!
  • Call us a lot? – set up a prepaid account now for cheaper gay chat – Join Now


Our chat line costs

0871 = Calls cost 13p per minute plus your phone company’s access charge

83344 = Calls cost 25p per minute from any UK mobile, NO hidden extras

Cheaper prepaid credit card costs –

£10.00 for 83 minutes – 12p/min (new caller bonus extra 50 minutes)

£20.00 for 166 minutes – 12p/min

£30.00 for 300 minutes – 10p/min (includes bonus of 83 minutes)


Calls are recorded | Service provided by GO Helpdesk 0330 333 8761

Be safe and sensible. Meet your date in a public place and tell a friend where you will be going. Never give out your personal contact details or information when you have a live one to one conversation on this phone service.

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Popular Gay Fetish Terms You Should Know


Gay Fetish terms

Guys who regularly use GayAdultChat – the UK’s busiest gay phone chat line service – can practice flirting skills and techniques, and exchange personal messages and texts, before arranging a gay date or a NSA hook up. If you’ve used our service then you’ll most certainly have come across some gay fetish terms!

It’s worth knowing your way around gay fetish lingo, if you’re using the online dating service to explore your sexuality, fantasies and kinks. As all members of our private and totally anonymous social network are 100% genuine, you’ll easily connect with someone gay, bi, or straight that is like-minded.

To find your perfect playmate, use the popular gay fetish terms listed below, when texting and sending private messages to and fro…

Kink & Fetish

Regardless of your sexual preference, if you’re someone who has an unconventional sexual interest, you’re likely to be known as a ‘kinkster’ on the gay scene. If your kink involves using something niche or specific (like playing with feet) or objects (such as a special type of clothing, sex toys or props) for sexual arousal, you also have a fetish.


Bondage is an erotic sexual practice, and can involve the use of ropes, handcuffs, leather cuffs, chains, or other restraints, to make a submissive helpless and immobilised.


The BDSM acronym stands for bondage, domination/discipline, submission/sadism and, masochism. BDSM generally involves tying, binding or restraining for erotic stimulation, and should always be consensual.


CBT (cock and ball torture) focuses attention on the genitals. It can include ball stretching (stretching the scrotal sac using weights) and ball bashing (hitting the balls with small paddles or blunt objects). This type of pleasure/pain punishment is typically dished out to ‘subs’.


The cock cage is a male chastity device that is used to stop a penis from getting erect and hard – and therefore limits masturbation and controls orgasm. Some cock cages can only be opened with a key that belongs to the Master.


The ‘Dom’ is the person who wields control over the ‘sub’. The Dominant is also the guy who instigates activity in the sexual dynamic between two (or more) people.


Edging involves controlling stimulation and withholding orgasm. It’s a practice that you can indulge in while watching porn on your own, or as a form of intense pleasure/pain torture during Dom/sub play.


Fisting (fist fucking) is the practice of stretching open the anus by slowly inserting fingers first, and eventually the whole hand. If you’re a FF novice, it’s best to start with toys and dildos, and gradually work towards finger and hand insertion. Fisting can cause severe injury, so it’s essential that you prep correctly, always apply plenty of lube, and wear gloves to minimise skin tearing.


Flogging is part of the S&M repertoire of erotic sex games that can be enjoyed by the Master/Dom and his slave/servant. A multi-tailed whip (usually made of leather) is used to deliver soft, tantalising strokes that can feel like an invigorating massage, or an intense and extremely painful experience.

Hanky Code

Back in the 1970s, the hanky code was regularly used in the gay club scene, as an effective way to advertise sexual preference. Wearing your hanky on the left side lets everyone know that you’re a ‘top’. If you’re a ‘bottom’, display your hanky on the right.

Colour meanings:

Black – S&M is your kink

Dark blue – you love anal

Light blue –you can’t get enough of oral sex

Brown – scat (poop) turns you on

Green – advertises gay escort for hire!

Grey – signals bondage gets you hot

Red – you’re into FF

Yellow – waterplay (piss play) floats your boat

Orange – you’ll try anything once!

Puppy Play

Puppy (kitty or pony) play is a popular kink that involves the submissive acting like a playful animal on all fours. The Dominant takes on the role of the Owner or Handler, and is in charge of disciplining the ‘puppy’ when it misbehaves. Good behaviour is rewarded with ‘treats’, which can be sexual in nature.

Safe Word

Regardless of whether you’re a novice or an experienced kinkster, it’s vital that you always use a ‘safe word’ during BDSM and consensual sex games. The safe word is a non-negotiable command to instantly stop play, and should be used whenever you reach your pain ‘limit’ or you feel unsafe.

In sexual experimentation that involves the use of a gag, you should swap your safe word for a signal like a slap on the thigh, or a snap of the fingers, to let your partner know that you want to stop immediately.


S&M stands for sadism and masochism. If you get your kicks from inflicting pain on others, you’re a sadist. You’re a masochist, if you get sexually aroused when experiencing painful sensory stimulation.


The slave (or sub) is someone who willingly allows their Master (Dom) to control them during an hour of erotic pleasure or extended hardcore playtimes. Some slaves even commit to kinky domestic service for life!


In a BDSM relationship, the sub is the person who submits to the will of a Dom/Dominant. In a sexual encounter, a sub is the passive/receptive person.


If you’re someone who enjoys domination and submission, you’re commonly known as a switch. Your ideal match is a guy who also loves to swap from ‘bottom’ to ‘top’, and ‘sub’ to ‘Dom’.




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5 Reasons Why Gay Men Love Gay Adult Chat

Gay guys looking for fun, and an adventurous way in which to explore sexuality, fetishes and kinks, are choosing to connect with gay, bi and straight men for hot hook ups, NSA liaisons, companionship and friendship via the phone. These are just a few of the reasons why Gay Adult Chat is the UK’s busiest gay phone chat line service.

If you’re intrigued by the possibility of chatting, flirting and arranging to meet up with someone new, but are not sure how to go about it, Gay Adult Chat makes it super easy for you…

  1. Privacy & Discretion

When you’re looking for companionship the last thing that you want to do is to invest countless hours searching for someone who’s not on your wavelength. On our live 121 gay chat line you will find that every man has one thing on their mind – making a connection!

You can chat and text however many hot men as you like, while maintaining your privacy and anonymity. All members are 100% real and interested in finding someone just like you.

  1. Fun & Excitement

Gay Adult Chat gives you the freedom to explore your sensuality and sexuality, with no pressure. You can chit chat with a few hot gay guys, arrange a date with someone who’s bi-curious, or explore flirting possibilities with men who are straight.

Whatever type of fun and excitement floats your boat is readily available on your phone. If you get your kicks by flirting with a stranger, simply check out who’s online and send them a cheeky icebreaker message.

Once you record your own greeting message, you’ll be excited to find that you have speedy responses in your personal dating voice mailbox. It’s entirely up to you if your connection progresses to a casual hook up, a date or a committed relationship.

  1. The Real Deal

If you’re looking to connect with genuine, friendly and open-minded gay men all over the UK, Gay Adult Chat is definitely the No.1 gay phone chat line service that you need to try. You’ll find that men of all ages, ethnicity and professional backgrounds regularly use our service to chat, text, flirt and arrange dates.

If you have a particular ‘type’, register for free, complete your personal profile and check out all of our 100% real deal members. You can cruise or create a search, or random message a sexy stranger who’s caught your eye on the ultimate gay social network.

  1. The Sweetest Taboo

Gay and bi guys that have yet to open up about their sexuality can discreetly, privately and confidentially explore the sweetest taboo via the UK’s top gay mobile dating service.

If you’re exploring your sexual identity, chatting on the phone with an experienced gay man can help you discover your self-confidence, and also be a sexual liberating experience.

  1. Satisfaction Guaranteed

It’s impossible to have too many friends. Our gay social network is a friendly place where you can find the type of connection that works for you…

As a gay man, or a guy who is exploring his sexuality, there may be times when you feel lonely and in need of friendship or companionship. Simply pick up the phone and check out the video profiles of our members to find someone that you’re instantly drawn to. Send them a ‘wink’ to show that you’re interested, and chat online as long as you like. By the end of the conversation you’ll have made a new friend!

You don’t have to get emotionally involved with any guys that you’ve exchanged a few flirty texts with, if you’re only interested in a connection that is NSA.

When you make Gay Adult Chat your favourite gay phone chat line service you decide what happens next in your social or love life, so that satisfaction is guaranteed.




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Chat With Real Gay Singles This Valentine’s Weekend!

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Don’t be sad about being single on Valentine’s Day! It means you get to chat with loads of other singles from all over the UK! Join in the fun on the UK’s best gay chat line!
Call to chat, flirt and date with hundreds of callers right now! It’s easy, fast, totally anonymous, and easy to use.

Why should you use Gay Adult Chat to chat to other singles? Here are a few reasons why we’re so good!

  • Record your own greeting message
  • Live 1-2-1 chat
  • Personal dating voice mailbox
  • Send and receive messages
  • Text chat and dating
  • Freefone credit card line
  • Customer service helpline
  • Safe and secure service
  • Fully moderated
  • Private, discreet and anonymous service

There are a few ways to join in the fun on your phone and get chatting to singles in your area.

If you call from your landline it’s just 13p/min (plus your phone company’s access charge) or from your mobile it’s just 25p/min with NO hidden charges!

If you’d prefer something quick and easy, try our great text chat service where we’ll send matches of local single guys straight to your mobile! (texts charged at your standard network rate).

What you get from our great text chat service:

  • Get a profile match in minutes
  • Hundreds of guys from all over the UK
  • Quick, fun and easy to use
  • Genuine and totally anonymous
  • Your mobile number is never revealed
  • Exchange pictures with other members

You can also access our chat line service using your credit or debit card. This way you’ll know exactly what you’re spending and won’t have any expensive charges on your phone bill as you’ll call a freephone 0800 number. You can top up in increments of £10.

Remember that we only have real and genuine people on our service as we don’t use operators like some of our competitors so you know you’re chatting to other genuine singles.

Get chatting to other single guys this Valentine’s Day and get yourself a date!

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Why Is Talking On The Phone So Beneficial For Your Relationship?

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It doesn’t matter if you’ve only just met or if you’ve been together for years, talking on the phone will always further your connection as a couple.

Our chatline is based around talking on the phone to other singles and we believe this is the best way to get to know someone before you meet them.

You can get a good idea of their sense of humour and what makes them tick. You can hear their tone of voice so you’re more likely to be able to get your point across and have a decent conversation.

You’ll also get immediate replies if you’re chatting one-to-one, rather than having to wait ages for them to text back!

Hearing someone’s voice is a big part of how attractive you find them. Voices are very personal and you’ll get a much better idea of someone by talking to them on the phone.

There’s also much less of a chance of what someone says being misinterpreted, which may cause friction and arguments, as you can immediately discuss it and put your point across much clearer than you would via a message.

If you would like to get chatting to singles in your area, call Gay Adult Chat today!

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Avoid Expensive Access Charges When Calling From A Mobile

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Are you calling the Gay Adult Chat chat lines from your mobile? Then call our mobile short code – 84422 – for only 25p per minute from all mobile networks with NO access charges.

For example, if you are calling from a Vodafone mobile and you call our 0871 number, it will cost you 13p per minute plus their access charge of 55p per minute, so in total you would be spending 68p per minute.

If you made the same call using our mobile short code then you would only be charged 25 pence per minute with NO EXPENSIVE ACCESS CHARGES – that saves you 43p per minute!

See our table below for a comparison of all access charges.

NetworkMobile Access Charge (per minute)*Landline Access Charge (per minute)*
Tesco Mobile25pN/A
Virgin Mobile58pN/A
Virgin Media[Can be found on your bill &in  your contract]
N.B. Some providers have a 1 minute minimum charge.

 *Prices correct as of 9th October 2018. You should always check with your service provider.

** Vodafone users may need to ask for the premium rate bar to be removed to enable access to this service.

Alternatively, if you use our service a lot then think about setting up a prepaid credit or debit card account and use our freephone number to access the service.

This is the cheapest way to access our service and a great way to call Gay Adult Chat if you are calling from a mobile or don’t want any 08 numbers showing on your phone bill.

  • Open an account for £10 and we will give you 250 minutes of talk time – that’s just 4p per minute!
  • Further top-ups of £10 will buy 83 minutes of talk time
  • Top-ups can be done in units of £10, £20 or £30
  • Access the service on a freephone number


So what are you waiting for? Call Gay Adult Chat today!

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Ten Topics To Avoid On A First Date


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You want to secure a second date so make sure you avoid talking about these topics.


  1. Politics.

You don’t need to know what their persuasion is on a first date. This could affect how much you like them/how well the date goes and there’s no need to talk about it. Keep conversation light hearted and get to know each other.


  1. Previous partners.

Do you really want to know what their last partner was like? You’ll probably just end up comparing yourself to them which is never a good thing. You also probably don’t want to know how many previous partners they’ve had or how many dates they’ve been on – it’s never what you want to hear!


  1. Money.

Never ask how much they earn or tell them how much you earn. Either way you won’t come across well. Keep it to simpler topics like hobbies or even just what they do for work.


  1. Religion.

Religion can be a very personal subject. Many people will not agree on religious subjects so it’s best not to bring this into conversation.


  1. Marriage/children.

This is definitely not a topic for a first date! You don’t want to scare them off so don’t bring up commitment until you’re both sure that’s where your relationship is heading.


  1. Work.

You can absolutely find out what each other does for a living but don’t moan about not liking your job or how much you dislike your colleague – your date isn’t interested! Also you don’t know if your date knows anyone you work with so it’s best not to moan about them!


  1. Yourself.

You will of course be talking about yourself when your date asks questions about you but don’t keep talking about yourself unprompted. Ask your date questions about themselves rather than banging on about yourself all the time.


  1. What you’re looking for.

Don’t get into a conversation about what sort of person you’re looking for, it only shows you as being high maintenance or picky (you’re allowed to be picky, just don’t let them know that!).


  1. Your own appearance.

If you put yourself down, your date won’t find this attractive. If you big yourself up they won’t find this attractive either. Let them compliment you if they want to and by all means compliment them but don’t mention your own appearance.


  1. Your family background.

By all means tell them how many siblings you have but there’s no need for any more detail than that, they’re on a date with you, not your entire family!


Get chatting on Gay Adult Chat today and meet local singles!

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Top Ten Tips For Dating On A Chatline


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Don’t fancy online dating or haven’t had much success? Give Gay Adult Chat a try and chat with people on your phone!

  • If you don’t like the sound of their voice, don’t be put off! People can sound totally different on the phone to how they do in person so if you get on and want to meet up then go for it!
  • If you do get to the point where you decide you want to meet up with them then please be sensible about it. Tell a friend where you are going and make sure you meet them in a public place at a sensible time of day.
  • Don’t give out your personal information on the chat line. If you decide you want to meet up with someone, make the arrangements through the chatline – it’s better to be safe and cautious when meeting people.
  • Set up a personal mailbox so guys can leave you messages when you are not online. It’s easy to do and you get your own account number and PIN so you can access it any time.
  • Record a good introduction message about yourself. Try not to make it too long but you want people to like the sound of you so make sure to highlight your best qualities!
  • Too shy to speak to people directly? Then send a voice message to their mailbox first or even try our text chat service. People text much more than they talk on the phone so why not give it a try?!
  • A picture is worth a thousand words, so why not upload a picture of yourself so guys can download it and check you out?! Please do keep them clean though, otherwise they won’t get past the moderation team.
  • If someone is being nasty, obscene or rude on the service then please report them to the moderators and bar them from contacting you.
  • If you call the service a lot then you might want to try setting up a pre-paid credit card account which will allow you to call the service at a cheaper rate so you’ll get more talk time for your money.
  • Remember to have fun and enjoy it. Dating shouldn’t turn into a chore. Chat and be yourself and this could help you find that special someone.

Give Gay Adult Chat a try today and chat with singles from all over the UK!

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5 Reasons Why You Should Call Our Gay Chat Lines

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Why should you call our gay chat lines? We can give you 5 reasons why so many guys choose us!

  • Live 121 chat – we have a live 121 chat feature so you can chat with callers on the line rather than just send messages. It’s instant, totally anonymous and easy to use! Get chatting to other gay singles for just 13p* per minute!
  • We give you a mobile short code so it’s cheaper to call from mobiles rather than calling our 087 number. It’s just 25p per minute with NO hidden charges!
  • We don’t use operators. All of our callers are 100% genuine and looking for dates. Record a short greeting to introduce yourself and listen to other callers’ greetings. There are hundreds of single gay guys using our service!
  • Set up a pre-paid card account. You can access the service on our freephone number and pay by card rather than on your phone bill. When you set up a card account for £10 we will give you 250** minutes of talk time – that’s just 4p per minute!
  • We also offer text chat and online dating too! If you don’t fancy talking on the phone, you can either chat to singles by text at £1.50 for 5 texts sent and received or sign up for free to our online dating service!

So what are you waiting for? Get chatting to other single gay guys all over the UK today with Gay Adult Chat!

*Plus your phone company’s access charge
**Further top ups of £10 will buy 83 minutes of talk time. Top ups can be done in £10, £20 or £30.