Gay Dating: Secure That All Important Second Date

Gay dating. You’re meeting up with someone you’ve met on Gay Adult Chat for the first time and want to make the best first impression. If you really like them, you’re going to want to get a second date in the bag. So what can you do to make sure you get it? Our tips below will help.

Make sure you’re on time.
It wouldn’t create the best first impression if you’re late on your first date with someone. Make sure you leave extra time for your journey to allow for any mishaps, as well as plenty of time to get ready beforehand. If you do end up running late, make sure you inform your date so they don’t think you’ve stood them up!

Dress appropriately for your date.
When going to a nice restaurant, make sure you wear something nice and make an effort. Equally if you’re just meeting for coffee, there’s no need to go overboard. You don’t need to spend hours worrying about your outfit, but your date will notice if you’ve put a bit of effort in.

Ask questions.
Make sure you get to know your date properly by asking them questions. It shows that you’re interested if you bother to find out things about them. For example ask about their career, basic information about their family, where they grew up etc. Keep it light hearted though, they don’t need to feel like they’re in an interview!

Make eye contact.
The best way to show your date that you’re interested is to maintain eye contact when they’re talking. This shows that you’re listening and paying attention to what they’re saying.
You can also see if they’re interested in you and what you’re saying if they’re maintaining eye contact with you as well.

Make sure there are no ‘barriers’ between you.
Try not to fold your arms or cross your legs as this creates a physical barrier between you and can portray that you’re not very open towards your date. You may also want to move things on the table so you have a better and clearer view of them whilst you’re talking.

Don’t keep checking your phone.
It’s okay to check the time or check if there are any emergencies a couple of times whilst you’re out. However repeatedly checking your phone makes it look like you don’t want to be there and aren’t interested in your date.
They should be your main focus whilst you’re together and if you’re interested you’ll want them to think that. Make sure you’re not distracted.

Pay your date compliments.
Obviously this is only if they are genuine! Do you like his jacket? – tell him. If you think his shoes are nice – tell him. If you think he has lovely eyes – TELL HIM! It’s nice to know your date likes things about you. It’ll help give you an idea of whether they’re into you or not – so show your appreciation!

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Ten Topics To Avoid On A First Date

 

You want to secure a second date so make sure you avoid talking about these topics.

 

  1. Politics.

You don’t need to know what their persuasion is on a first date. This could affect how much you like them/how well the date goes and there’s no need to talk about it. Keep conversation light hearted and get to know each other.

 

  1. Previous partners.

Do you really want to know what their last partner was like? You’ll probably just end up comparing yourself to them which is never a good thing. You also probably don’t want to know how many previous partners they’ve had or how many dates they’ve been on – it’s never what you want to hear!

 

  1. Money.

Never ask how much they earn or tell them how much you earn. Either way you won’t come across well. Keep it to simpler topics like hobbies or even just what they do for work.

 

  1. Religion.

Religion can be a very personal subject. Many people will not agree on religious subjects so it’s best not to bring this into conversation.

 

  1. Marriage/children.

This is definitely not a topic for a first date! You don’t want to scare them off so don’t bring up commitment until you’re both sure that’s where your relationship is heading.

 

  1. Work.

You can absolutely find out what each other does for a living but don’t moan about not liking your job or how much you dislike your colleague – your date isn’t interested! Also you don’t know if your date knows anyone you work with so it’s best not to moan about them!

 

  1. Yourself.

You will of course be talking about yourself when your date asks questions about you but don’t keep talking about yourself unprompted. Ask your date questions about themselves rather than banging on about yourself all the time.

 

  1. What you’re looking for.

Don’t get into a conversation about what sort of person you’re looking for, it only shows you as being high maintenance or picky (you’re allowed to be picky, just don’t let them know that!).

 

  1. Your own appearance.

If you put yourself down, your date won’t find this attractive. If you big yourself up they won’t find this attractive either. Let them compliment you if they want to and by all means compliment them but don’t mention your own appearance.

 

  1. Your family background.

By all means tell them how many siblings you have but there’s no need for any more detail than that, they’re on a date with you, not your entire family!

 

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6 Of The Best Gay Bars In London

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Looking for gay bars in London? Try some of our favourites!

 

Heaven

One of the longest-running gay bars in Europe, Heaven hosts G-A-Y dance parties as well as many other very popular themed nights.
One main attraction of Heaven is the fact that it is central London’s only one thousand capacity venue for live music, which understandably attracts a wide range of clientele.
Playing host to huge artists such as Kylie Minogue and One Direction means there’s something for everyone at Heaven.
Under The Arches, Villiers Street, London, WC2N 6NG

 

Rupert Street

Rupert Street is a gay cocktail bar in the heart of Soho able to cater for your every need.
There’s an extensive cocktail menu to choose from with 2-4-1 every Monday (12-8pm), and a fabulous food menu with food being served daily (12-6pm).
Rupert Street livens up on Friday and Saturday nights with DJs playing a mixture of tunes to get your weekend underway.
50 Rupert Street, Soho, London, W1D 6DR

 

The Village

The first of its kind to open in Soho, The Village is a well-established bar that offers something for everyone.
Spread out over three floors, there’s a café bar on the ground floor which is open for food during the day, an upstairs dance floor which plays brilliant modern tracks for you to dance the night away to, or you can head upstairs to the new luxurious cocktail lounge for a more relaxed evening.
There’s often a selection of live entertainment and late night karaoke and with happy hour from 5-9pm every night to whet your appetite, you won’t want to miss out.
81 Wardour Street, London, W1D 6QD

 

Royal Vauxhall Tavern

Located in the heart of Vauxhall and housed in a building constructed in 1863, RVT is known for its unique cabaret, DJ sets, and performances from well-known artists, as well as comedy acts, bingo and club nights seven days a week.
Every Saturday plays host to ‘Duckie’, a disco cabaret night which is the crowning glory of RVT.
Having been featured in a number of films, including the recent ‘Pride’, RVT is somewhere you want to be seen.
372 Kennington Lane, London, SE11 5HY

 

The Shadow Lounge

Known as Soho’s biggest secret, The Shadow Lounge is an exclusive and sophisticated gay members club that flaunts the most eclectic mix of entertainment you could hope for.
Boasting one of the best party atmospheres in London, with regular appearances from well-known DJs and a huge selection of themed nights, there’s absolutely something for everyone here.
Known for attracting celebrities and high profile clientele, The Shadow Lounge is the place to be.
5-7 Brewer Street, London, W1F 0RF

 

Ku

Covering three floors, with a capacity of 500 and open 7 days a week, Ku has something for everyone.
With its exclusive Champagne bar and DJs every night, you’re sure to impress your date if you take them here!
There are walls of flat screen TVs playing all the latest music videos and Ku’s signature ‘sexy images and arty videos’.
Ku also has a cocktail bar in the heart of Soho, so whether you’re headed for a drink after work or want to party the night away, there is sure to be something that takes your fancy in one of the venues.
30 Lisle Street, London, WC2H 7BA

 

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Best Gay Venues in Brighton

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Looking for a weekend away, or somewhere to go during the Pride weekend? Check out our top 5 venues!

 

Revenge

For over 21 years, Club Revenge has been one of the top LGBT venues in Brighton, offering karaoke, big name performers and award winning DJs.
They host nights such as UV parties, student events, cheesy pop parties, house music nights and a number of themed nights including circus nights, “Pirates’n’Pjs”, Hallowe’en events and Pride and New Year events that you wouldn’t find anywhere else.
Spread out over 3 floors, there’s plenty of room for dancing the night away – or if you need some fresh air then head up onto the roof terrace for some brilliant views of the city.
Club Revenge’s sister venue Bar Revenge has plenty of space to relax with a few drinks during the day or evening to get you ready for your night in the club!
Club: 32-34 Old Steine, Brighton, BN1 1EL. Bar: 5-7 Marine Parade, Brighton, BN2 1TA

 

The Marlborough Pub & Theatre

Hosting a huge range of events in both the pub and theatre, there’s sure to be something to lure you through the doors of The Marlborough.
Whether you fancy music, theatre, comedy, cabaret, workshops or literature events there will certainly be something you’ll want to see or do, and with constantly changing residencies in the kitchen, there will always be different delicious food to try.
Being the home of Pink Fringe, you can expect fabulous entertainment from the producers of Queer and LGBT performances all year round.
4 Princes Street, Brighton, East Sussex, BN2 1RD

  

Charles Street

On the ground floor of Charles Street, you’ll find a seafront bar and restaurant serving food from lunch to dinner, and with a range of light bites, sharers and three course meals, there’s guaranteed to be something to cater to your every whim!
They also have an outside terrace area so if the weather is nice you can grab a coffee or a cocktail and enjoy the sunshine.
Once the evening arrives, the atmosphere changes in Charles Street to more of a pre-club bar and with Envy upstairs hosting many different club nights, you won’t need to go anywhere else.
8 Marine Parade, Brighton, BN2 1TA

  

Legends

Combining a bar, club and hotel, Legends is definitely a unique venue that accommodates all your needs.
Offering a wide range of entertainment from award winning DJs, to party nights, to cabaret acts, something is sure to pull you through the doors.
The hotel has an selection of different sized rooms ranging from “tiny” to full sized suites so whatever your budget there will be something suitable for you.
So pop in for lunch, a drink on the terrace (with exceptional panoramic views of Brighton seafront), a boogie in the basement club, an overnight stay in the hotel or all of it at once!
31-34 Marine Parade, Brighton, BN2 1TR

 

The Bulldog

Predominantly a gay man’s venue (although all are welcome), The Bulldog boasts a main bar, a stage area and a karaoke room, all spread out over two floors.
Located in the most popular area for revellers during the Pride weekend, it is one of the most preferred venues for post parade drinking.
The Bulldog also offers a range of fun cabaret events and drag nights to draw you in all year round.
With its 24 hour drinking license, some party nights continue until 8am, so if you’re up for partying until breakfast then this is the place to go!
31 St James Street, Brighton, BN2 1RF

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