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Why Gay Guys Love NSA

No strings attached (NSA) arrangements promise excitement, sex, and absolute emotional detachment. Being able to enjoy the fun side of a physical relationship, without getting caught up in the messy feelings part, is highly attractive to any man (or woman) who is horny or lonely.

If you’re a gay guy who is looking for passion and an erotic encounter, you can easily find your ideal hook up on GayAdultChat. You can chat and flirt with genuine gay, bi-curious and straight men via live 1-2-1 chat, set up your own personal dating mailbox, and exchange messages with anyone you fancy.

Getting to know someone is entirely optional on the UK’s busiest gay phone chat line. If you’re only interested in connecting to enjoy casual sex, you can get straight to the point by sending messages to hot guys nationwide. If your sex preference is to find a FWB for regular booty calls, cruise the member profiles to find your perfect NSA playmate.

And if you’re a hopeless romantic who is looking for love, you could just get lucky and find that too!

No Strings Attached – Busting The Myth

If you believe everything that you read in the gay media, then every gay man is constantly on the prowl for their next casual hook up conquest. It’s a myth that all gay gays are stereotypical and only into sex that is strictly no strings attached. While some gay men certainly love to partake in a lot of sex, others are pickier about the number of lovers they sleep with, or have common sexual hang-ups just like their heterosexual counterparts.

Some gay and heterosexual men may believe that the more times they have sex, the more masculine they are. This false belief can cause confusion, if you’re a man who doesn’t feel comfortable having casual sex and having it often. If you need to feel safe, respected, connected and valued, before jumping into bed with someone, NSA may not be for you. If you feel that something is missing in your life, having lots of sex won’t instantly make you feel happier or complete.

Confidence Boosting Benefits

On the upside, NSA arrangements can be beneficial in boosting a guy’s sexual confidence, body confidence and overall self-confidence. If you’re lacking in the three Cs, you may find it challenging to form relationships that are lasting, because you may not feel worthy or deserving of the experience. Having your ego stroked by a hot gay guy who thinks you’re sexy, can work wonders on your self-image and sex-drive.

Stress-busting Intimacy

It’s a medical fact that regular sex sessions can help to reduce your stress levels. Sexual stimulation triggers the release of feel-good hormones, like endorphins, oxytocin, and dopamine. The cortisol hormone that controls stress also lessens, while you’re engaged in intimacy.

If you work in a highly pressured profession or environment, you may require a frequent outlet for releasing stress before it becomes pent-up. For many single men, a NSA hook up is a far more exciting option than a session of solo masturbation, or a visit to the doctor for stress reducing pills.

Plus, there’s growing scientific evidence that increasing the frequency of ejaculation can lower a man’s chances of getting prostate cancer and developing cardiovascular disease (CVD). You can also minimise your chances of developing erectile dysfunction (ED) by having sex at least once a week.

Extramarital Sex

The need and desire to have more sex could mean that you look outside of an emotional relationship, if you’re attached. Having fun between the sheets with a horny stranger is a tempting and thrilling proposition for a MBA guy with a higher than average sex drive.

If you’re in an open relationship, NSA connections offer an opportunity to get your rocks off without fear of the casual encounters affecting the emotional side of your romantic partnership and love life.

In Search Of The One

Some gay men use a hook up as a means of feeling out a potential long-term lover. A NSA encounter allows you to spend time with someone you fancy, so that you can explore whether there’s any real chemistry or the spark of a meaningful connection.

If you’re only interested in NSA gay sex, it’s polite to let the sexy guy that you have been flirting with, on GayAdultChat, know upfront that the amorous encounter will strictly be a one-night stand or a casual fling.

While you’re looking for the One, you could enjoy great nights of hot sex with no expectations. And if you do happen to connect with Mr Right, it will be a bonus!

 

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Gay Phone Chat

Popular Gay Fetish Terms You Should Know

 

Gay Fetish terms

Guys who regularly use GayAdultChat – the UK’s busiest gay phone chat line service – can practice flirting skills and techniques, and exchange personal messages and texts, before arranging a gay date or a NSA hook up. If you’ve used our service then you’ll most certainly have come across some gay fetish terms!

It’s worth knowing your way around gay fetish lingo, if you’re using the online dating service to explore your sexuality, fantasies and kinks. As all members of our private and totally anonymous social network are 100% genuine, you’ll easily connect with someone gay, bi, or straight that is like-minded.

To find your perfect playmate, use the popular gay fetish terms listed below, when texting and sending private messages to and fro…

Kink & Fetish

Regardless of your sexual preference, if you’re someone who has an unconventional sexual interest, you’re likely to be known as a ‘kinkster’ on the gay scene. If your kink involves using something niche or specific (like playing with feet) or objects (such as a special type of clothing, sex toys or props) for sexual arousal, you also have a fetish.

Bondage

Bondage is an erotic sexual practice, and can involve the use of ropes, handcuffs, leather cuffs, chains, or other restraints, to make a submissive helpless and immobilised.

BDSM

The BDSM acronym stands for bondage, domination/discipline, submission/sadism and, masochism. BDSM generally involves tying, binding or restraining for erotic stimulation, and should always be consensual.

CBT

CBT (cock and ball torture) focuses attention on the genitals. It can include ball stretching (stretching the scrotal sac using weights) and ball bashing (hitting the balls with small paddles or blunt objects). This type of pleasure/pain punishment is typically dished out to ‘subs’.

Chastity

The cock cage is a male chastity device that is used to stop a penis from getting erect and hard – and therefore limits masturbation and controls orgasm. Some cock cages can only be opened with a key that belongs to the Master.

Dom/Dominant

The ‘Dom’ is the person who wields control over the ‘sub’. The Dominant is also the guy who instigates activity in the sexual dynamic between two (or more) people.

Edging

Edging involves controlling stimulation and withholding orgasm. It’s a practice that you can indulge in while watching porn on your own, or as a form of intense pleasure/pain torture during Dom/sub play.

FF

Fisting (fist fucking) is the practice of stretching open the anus by slowly inserting fingers first, and eventually the whole hand. If you’re a FF novice, it’s best to start with toys and dildos, and gradually work towards finger and hand insertion. Fisting can cause severe injury, so it’s essential that you prep correctly, always apply plenty of lube, and wear gloves to minimise skin tearing.

Flogging

Flogging is part of the S&M repertoire of erotic sex games that can be enjoyed by the Master/Dom and his slave/servant. A multi-tailed whip (usually made of leather) is used to deliver soft, tantalising strokes that can feel like an invigorating massage, or an intense and extremely painful experience.

Hanky Code

Back in the 1970s, the hanky code was regularly used in the gay club scene, as an effective way to advertise sexual preference. Wearing your hanky on the left side lets everyone know that you’re a ‘top’. If you’re a ‘bottom’, display your hanky on the right.

Colour meanings:

Black – S&M is your kink

Dark blue – you love anal

Light blue –you can’t get enough of oral sex

Brown – scat (poop) turns you on

Green – advertises gay escort for hire!

Grey – signals bondage gets you hot

Red – you’re into FF

Yellow – waterplay (piss play) floats your boat

Orange – you’ll try anything once!

Puppy Play

Puppy (kitty or pony) play is a popular kink that involves the submissive acting like a playful animal on all fours. The Dominant takes on the role of the Owner or Handler, and is in charge of disciplining the ‘puppy’ when it misbehaves. Good behaviour is rewarded with ‘treats’, which can be sexual in nature.

Safe Word

Regardless of whether you’re a novice or an experienced kinkster, it’s vital that you always use a ‘safe word’ during BDSM and consensual sex games. The safe word is a non-negotiable command to instantly stop play, and should be used whenever you reach your pain ‘limit’ or you feel unsafe.

In sexual experimentation that involves the use of a gag, you should swap your safe word for a signal like a slap on the thigh, or a snap of the fingers, to let your partner know that you want to stop immediately.

S&M

S&M stands for sadism and masochism. If you get your kicks from inflicting pain on others, you’re a sadist. You’re a masochist, if you get sexually aroused when experiencing painful sensory stimulation.

Slave/Master

The slave (or sub) is someone who willingly allows their Master (Dom) to control them during an hour of erotic pleasure or extended hardcore playtimes. Some slaves even commit to kinky domestic service for life!

Sub/Submissive

In a BDSM relationship, the sub is the person who submits to the will of a Dom/Dominant. In a sexual encounter, a sub is the passive/receptive person.

Switch

If you’re someone who enjoys domination and submission, you’re commonly known as a switch. Your ideal match is a guy who also loves to swap from ‘bottom’ to ‘top’, and ‘sub’ to ‘Dom’.

 

 

 

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Gay Phone Chat

5 Reasons Why Gay Men Love Gay Adult Chat

Gay guys looking for fun, and an adventurous way in which to explore sexuality, fetishes and kinks, are choosing to connect with gay, bi and straight men for hot hook ups, NSA liaisons, companionship and friendship via the phone. These are just a few of the reasons why Gay Adult Chat is the UK’s busiest gay phone chat line service.

If you’re intrigued by the possibility of chatting, flirting and arranging to meet up with someone new, but are not sure how to go about it, Gay Adult Chat makes it super easy for you…

  1. Privacy & Discretion

When you’re looking for companionship the last thing that you want to do is to invest countless hours searching for someone who’s not on your wavelength. On our live 121 gay chat line you will find that every man has one thing on their mind – making a connection!

You can chat and text however many hot men as you like, while maintaining your privacy and anonymity. All members are 100% real and interested in finding someone just like you.

  1. Fun & Excitement

Gay Adult Chat gives you the freedom to explore your sensuality and sexuality, with no pressure. You can chit chat with a few hot gay guys, arrange a date with someone who’s bi-curious, or explore flirting possibilities with men who are straight.

Whatever type of fun and excitement floats your boat is readily available on your phone. If you get your kicks by flirting with a stranger, simply check out who’s online and send them a cheeky icebreaker message.

Once you record your own greeting message, you’ll be excited to find that you have speedy responses in your personal dating voice mailbox. It’s entirely up to you if your connection progresses to a casual hook up, a date or a committed relationship.

  1. The Real Deal

If you’re looking to connect with genuine, friendly and open-minded gay men all over the UK, Gay Adult Chat is definitely the No.1 gay phone chat line service that you need to try. You’ll find that men of all ages, ethnicity and professional backgrounds regularly use our service to chat, text, flirt and arrange dates.

If you have a particular ‘type’, register for free, complete your personal profile and check out all of our 100% real deal members. You can cruise or create a search, or random message a sexy stranger who’s caught your eye on the ultimate gay social network.

  1. The Sweetest Taboo

Gay and bi guys that have yet to open up about their sexuality can discreetly, privately and confidentially explore the sweetest taboo via the UK’s top gay mobile dating service.

If you’re exploring your sexual identity, chatting on the phone with an experienced gay man can help you discover your self-confidence, and also be a sexual liberating experience.

  1. Satisfaction Guaranteed

It’s impossible to have too many friends. Our gay social network is a friendly place where you can find the type of connection that works for you…

As a gay man, or a guy who is exploring his sexuality, there may be times when you feel lonely and in need of friendship or companionship. Simply pick up the phone and check out the video profiles of our members to find someone that you’re instantly drawn to. Send them a ‘wink’ to show that you’re interested, and chat online as long as you like. By the end of the conversation you’ll have made a new friend!

You don’t have to get emotionally involved with any guys that you’ve exchanged a few flirty texts with, if you’re only interested in a connection that is NSA.

When you make Gay Adult Chat your favourite gay phone chat line service you decide what happens next in your social or love life, so that satisfaction is guaranteed.

 

 

 

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Gay Dating

6 Red Flags To Look Out For When Dating

There can be a number of red flags that pop up when dating.

Some of these red flags will give you sense of whether they’re looking for something serious or just a bit of fun.

It can be really difficult to tell who is genuinely looking for a long-term relationship and who is just looking for a hook up.

We’ve compiled a list below of some of the red flags you can look out for.

They ask for your number immediately.

They have no reason to ask for your number straight away. No matter how you’re conversing, it’s always going to be as anonymous as you make it, so there’s no need to exchange numbers before you’re comfortable.

If they’re pressuring you to do so, this can be a sign they’re not seriously looking for anything longer term.

 

They don’t take ‘no’ for an answer.

Regardless of what it is you’re saying no to, if they don’t respect your answer then that’s a big red flag.
It’s important to set boundaries that you’re comfortable with and people should respect that, especially if they want to build a meaningful relationship with you – friendly or romantic.

 

They only have one thing on their mind.

Sex and intimacy can be very important in a romantic relationship, but if he launches into talking about that immediately, then that’s usually all he’s looking for.
People aren’t just their bodies or how they look. For something longer lasting, it’s best to spend some time getting to know someone first.

 

They aren’t open and honest with you.

We all have little secrets. We all have things we might not be comfortable revealing to a potential partner straight away and that’s absolutely fine.
However, if they won’t answer basic questions or won’t tell you things about themselves, that can be concerning.
Be honest and open with what you are expecting from them and if they’re not willing to meet you in the middle, maybe it’s time to cut your losses!

 

Love bombing.

If someone showers you with love, affection, gifts, or extravagant things right at the beginning of the relationship, this is a huge red flag.
You might not even notice at first and just think they’re being caring and generous, especially if it’s not something you’ve experienced before as it can be very flattering. If it’s over the top, this is known as “love bombing”. They lure you in by thinking they’re lovely and generous and this is how the relationship is going to be, but the majority of the time it’s not sustainable and their behaviour changes.

 

They don’t want you to meet their friends/family.

If a guy is serious about a relationship, they should be honest with you if there’s an issue with meeting their family. If they just keep avoiding it or making excuses, this can be a worry.
Usually people want to show off their new partner and introduce them to everyone that they care about. If they’re not willing to do this, there needs to be a conversation about why, other something isn’t right.
Of course, you always need to be cautious when dating new people and always be alert for any of these red flags.
Make sure you talk about things and set clear boundaries and be honest with each other from the start.

If you’re yet to meet Mr Right, then get chatting on Gay Adult Chat’s chat and text lines as you never know when you might meet The One.. just look out for those red flags!

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Gay Dating

Lockdown Valentine’s Day Date Ideas

Two men on a date looking at each other whilst clinking wine glasses

Dating has definitely been much more difficult during the multiple tims we’ve been in lockdown over the last 11 months, but it doesn’t need to stop completely.

If you’re looking for some date ideas this Valentine’s Day, we’ve got you covered!

 

Chat on the phone.

We get so used to texting or messaging on multiple apps, that we don’t connect with each other like we used to, especially now we rely on this technology more than ever at the moment.

Chatting on the phone is a great way to either see if you’ve got chemistry if you’ve not met yet, or if you’re already seeing each other or in a relationship it’s a great way to feel a bit closer to each other whilst being apart for so long.

 

Watch a movie or TV show you love.

With the cinemas being closed during lockdown, we need to think of alternative ways to watch things together.

You can recommend movies or TV shows to each other and have a discussion about it, or watch it simultaneously. You can have a video chat at the same time, or compare notes during or after. It gives you something to chat about and something to bond over.

 

Have a romantic candlelit dinner.

There’s no reason not to still have that romantic candlelit dinner this Valentine’s Day!

Schedule a time where you can both cook a meal together or order takeaway and sit down and eat with one another over a video call. Things are very different this Valentine’s Day but there are still ways to be romantic.

 

Play games together.

There are plenty of online games you can play together. Whether you both own the same console and can connect through games on there, or whether you want to play something online like Geoguessr where you have to race to find out where in the world you have been placed.

 

Write each other letters.

If you’d rather not involve technology sometimes, writing letters are a great way to communicate, even if it is a bit slower!

It’s a much more personal way of communicating with each other and you could even send each other little gifts you think they would like.

 

If you’ve yet to meet the man of your dreams in time for Valentine’s Day, get yourself on Gay Adult Chat and get chatting to singles from all over the UK on our great phone chat or mobile dating services today!

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Gay Dating

How You Can Still Date Whilst Social Distancing

Dating might have taken a back seat for a lot of people, as it’s not been the most important thing over the last few months. As we’re ever so slightly getting back to some sort of normality, how can you start dating again whilst keeping to social distancing rules?

There are a number of ways you can still have dates and see if you have that special connection with the other person.

Here are just a few ideas to try if you want to get yourself back out there and start dating again.

A video call date

This is a great place to start before you decide to meet, as you can get an idea of whether you think the spark is there and whether you would actually like to meet up. You can gauge someone’s reactions and their tone and see their facial expressions.

Watch the same movie at the same time

 Pick a movie you both want to see and watch it at the same time – it means you can either discuss things throughout, as if you were together, or you can have a chat at the end about what you liked and what you didn’t like.

 Cook together

 Find a meal you both like and plan a time when you can cook together. You could video chat whilst doing it to see if you’re doing it the same way.

If cooking isn’t your thing, you could order the same takeaway, or for something more exciting – order takeaway for each other!

Go for a walk together

 Now we’re allowed to meet up with people from outside our household – whilst maintaining social distancing – why not go for a nice walk together? If you live on the coast, a nice seaside walk on a sunny day could be really romantic, or in your local park. You could even stop and have a picnic.

 Book a space in a pub garden

 Now that pubs are open again you could book a table in the garden and have an almost ‘normal’ date! Sit and have a few drinks and/or some food and hopefully some good conversation.

  

If you’re still looking for someone to date, how about giving Gay Adult Chat a try?! You can chat on the phone or by text on your mobile so join today!

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Gay Text Chat

Top Tips On How To Text Guys

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What with being stuck at home, we’re having to find new ways to date and get to know people.

If you’ve never tried it before, text chat can be a great way to get to know guys, and now you’ve got all this spare time, what else are you going to do?!

Here are our top tips on texting guys and getting that conversation started.

Don’t leave it ages between messages.

We’re not saying you need to reply as soon as you receive the message, you don’t want to seem overly keen! But just reply as and when you have a moment to sit and read what you’ve received.

Try and keep on top of your spelling and grammar.

You might not thing it’s important, but they might. If you’re really paying attention to what they’re saying and putting effort into your replies, they’ll know, and it’ll get you in their good books!

You can still flirt!

Even though the conversation is written down rather than face to face, you can still be cheeky and flirty. This is a good time to be using emojis so they know what your intentions are!

Text them first.

When you get up in the morning, maybe whilst you’re having your cuppa or eating your toast, send them a quick message to say you hope they have a nice day. It means a lot and will open up the communication channel for the day.

Don’t ghost them.

Vanishing off the face of the earth is one of the worst things you can do! Apart from being upsetting, it lacks respect for the other person. If you’re not feeling it and don’t want to take things further then do the right thing and tell them. (You don’t need to be rude, though!).

 

If you’d like to put these into practice with some new guys, then join our great text chat now!

 

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Gay News Gay Pride Events

Gay Pride Events 2020

Due to Covid-19, a lot of these events are and will be cancelled. Please use the links to check with each individual event.

 

Whether you enjoy going to regular pride events or this is your first time, here’s a list of UK gay pride events throughout 2020 to add to your calendar!

January

31stWinter Pride

February

21st – 23rdStudent Pride

March

April

25thHampshire Pride

25th – 26th Bury Pride

May

2ndSwansea Pride

2ndExeter Pride

23rd-24thBirmingham Pride

30thNorthumberland Pride

30thOxford Pride

June

5th – 6thBlackpool Pride

6th – 7thBradford Pride

6thYork Pride

6thEastleigh Pride

13th-14th – Coventry Pride

13thEdinburgh Pride

13thColchester Pride

13thSalisbury Pride

20thEssex Pride

27thDublin Pride

20thExmouth Pride

20thThe Pink Picnic (Salford Pride)

20thPride in the Park (Crewe)

27thPride in London

July

4th Fife Pride

11thBristol Pride

11thWorthing Pride

10th-12thSparkle Weekend (Manchester)

14thBarnsley Pride

17th – 19th – Northern Pride (Newcastle)

18thCroydon Pride

18thEastbourne Pride

18thSouthend Pride

18th-19thWeston-Super-Mare Pride

19thChesterfield Pride

20thHappy Valley Pride (Hebden Bridge)

25thPride in Hull

25thNorwich Pride

25thWest Lothian Pride

26thStockport Pride

August

1st – 2nd  – Brighton Pride

2ndLeeds Pride

8thChester Pride

8thPride in Surrey

8thSwindon & Wiltshire Pride

8thMargate Pride

8thWigan Pride

8thDoncaster Pride

9thWakefield Pride

15thTunbridge Wells Pride

22ndWarwickshire Pride

22ndHerts Pride

28th – 31stManchester Pride

28th – 30thPride Cymru

29thCornwall Pride

29thFoyle Pride

September

5thReading Pride

5thBasildon Pride

5thDerby Pride

5thTotnes Pride

12thMilton Keynes Pride

12thPride in Gloucestershire

19thWorcestershire Pride

26thCumbria Pride

October

November

December

Find someone to go to your nearest gay pride with! Get chatting to single guys from all over the UK on Gay Adult Chat today!

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Gay Phone Chat

Chat With Real Gay Singles This Valentine’s Weekend!

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Don’t be sad about being single on Valentine’s Day! It means you get to chat with loads of other singles from all over the UK! Join in the fun on the UK’s best gay chat line!
Call to chat, flirt and date with hundreds of callers right now! It’s easy, fast, totally anonymous, and easy to use.

Why should you use Gay Adult Chat to chat to other singles? Here are a few reasons why we’re so good!

  • Record your own greeting message
  • Live 1-2-1 chat
  • Personal dating voice mailbox
  • Send and receive messages
  • Text chat and dating
  • Freefone credit card line
  • Customer service helpline
  • Safe and secure service
  • Fully moderated
  • Private, discreet and anonymous service

There are a few ways to join in the fun on your phone and get chatting to singles in your area.

If you call from your landline it’s just 13p/min (plus your phone company’s access charge) or from your mobile it’s just 25p/min with NO hidden charges!

If you’d prefer something quick and easy, try our great text chat service where we’ll send matches of local single guys straight to your mobile! (texts charged at your standard network rate).

What you get from our great text chat service:

  • Get a profile match in minutes
  • Hundreds of guys from all over the UK
  • Quick, fun and easy to use
  • Genuine and totally anonymous
  • Your mobile number is never revealed
  • Exchange pictures with other members

You can also access our chat line service using your credit or debit card. This way you’ll know exactly what you’re spending and won’t have any expensive charges on your phone bill as you’ll call a freephone 0800 number. You can top up in increments of £10.

Remember that we only have real and genuine people on our service as we don’t use operators like some of our competitors so you know you’re chatting to other genuine singles.

Get chatting to other single guys this Valentine’s Day and get yourself a date!

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Gay Dating

Gay Dating: Secure That All Important Second Date

 

Two men on a date looking at each other whilst clinking wine glasses

Gay dating. You’re meeting up with someone you’ve met on Gay Adult Chat for the first time and want to make the best first impression. If you really like them, you’re going to want to get a second date in the bag. So what can you do to make sure you get it? Our tips below will help.

Make sure you’re on time.
It wouldn’t create the best first impression if you’re late on your first date with someone. Make sure you leave extra time for your journey to allow for any mishaps, as well as plenty of time to get ready beforehand. If you do end up running late, make sure you inform your date so they don’t think you’ve stood them up!

Dress appropriately for your date.
When going to a nice restaurant, make sure you wear something nice and make an effort. Equally if you’re just meeting for coffee, there’s no need to go overboard. You don’t need to spend hours worrying about your outfit, but your date will notice if you’ve put a bit of effort in.

Ask questions.
Make sure you get to know your date properly by asking them questions. It shows that you’re interested if you bother to find out things about them. For example ask about their career, basic information about their family, where they grew up etc. Keep it light hearted though, they don’t need to feel like they’re in an interview!

Make eye contact.
The best way to show your date that you’re interested is to maintain eye contact when they’re talking. This shows that you’re listening and paying attention to what they’re saying.
You can also see if they’re interested in you and what you’re saying if they’re maintaining eye contact with you as well.

Make sure there are no ‘barriers’ between you.
Try not to fold your arms or cross your legs as this creates a physical barrier between you and can portray that you’re not very open towards your date. You may also want to move things on the table so you have a better and clearer view of them whilst you’re talking.

Don’t keep checking your phone.
It’s okay to check the time or check if there are any emergencies a couple of times whilst you’re out. However repeatedly checking your phone makes it look like you don’t want to be there and aren’t interested in your date.
They should be your main focus whilst you’re together and if you’re interested you’ll want them to think that. Make sure you’re not distracted.

Pay your date compliments.
Obviously this is only if they are genuine! Do you like his jacket? – tell him. If you think his shoes are nice – tell him. If you think he has lovely eyes – TELL HIM! It’s nice to know your date likes things about you. It’ll help give you an idea of whether they’re into you or not – so show your appreciation!

So, follow our gay dating tips and get that first date by chatting to single guys on Gay Adult Chat and follow our tips to secure a second!